What is a MOTHER ? Acronym / Titus 2 Moms

My friend Cindy gave a devotional talk for our Titus 2 Moms group last week.  She does not have her own blog, so for a spot for the moms to read what she said, her notes are posted here from  May 22-27.

 M-O-T-H-E-R

R Resourceful. There is a wife and mother called by the Bible “a wife of noble character” and of her value, it is said, “she is worth far more that rubies” (Proverbs 31:10) . This woman has her house in order. She is thrifty, she buys property, and sells merchandise she has produced. At the same time, she makes sure her household is well fed and well clothed. She is generous to the poor and is always doing helpful things for her husband and family. She is versatile and resourceful. She cooks, cleans, sews, buys, sells, and still makes time for her family and friends.

You are currently doing many of these things. Becoming a mother added to your already impressive resume: Playmate, chauffeur, medic, teacher, counselor, and more! Creativity and resourcefulness is a must for success!

To meet the demands, prepare by educating yourself about what is reasonable to expect of a woman in your phase of life. If I could pick only one instructional book to have, I would choose the Bible. It is full of practical knowledge and truth for living and feeds my soul. There are others. Talk to friends, neighbors, and family members who can offer valuable advice because they have experienced a little more of parenting.

On days when you feel completely drained, remember: your greatest resource is God, who gives wisdom, strength, and guidance. He hears and responds in marvelous way.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, 

with thanksgiving, let your requests be made know to God...    (Philippians 4:6)

Respect the individuality of your child and RESPECT his privacy in safe areas: personal property, personal information (don't 'tell' on your child by name in conversations with others), closed doors. Potentially unsafe areas need to be monitored:  friendships and, as they get older, where they go, what they say on phone & internet.

R Could also be for reward. Being a mother is full of them!

Other excellent resources:

·      Now Discover Your Strengths (with assessment)

·      StrengthsFinder 2.0, Tom Rath (with assessment)

·      Strengths Explorer (with assessment for ages 10-14)

·      Strengths Quest (with assessment for high school/college age)

·     Your Child’s Strengths, Jenifer Fox (no assessment, EXCELLENT resource for understanding working with strengths in field of education)